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notafanofflyin
04-10-2009, 03:17 PM
And all went well. Thanks to the advice on this board! Left Monday morning at 5:30 am for San Antonio on my Continental flight. My husband got a gate pass and went through security with me, because I was a sniffling, sobbing mess. I was still terrified, even after tracking the flight route for days. My eyes really welled up in tears as I saw him standing there outside the gate and I started my walk into the skywalk, praying I wasn't walking towards a sure and sudden death.:sigh:

Got my seat, and most everyone around me promptly went to sleep. I had taken an ativan, which helped I think, cause I was drowsy and nodding in and out most of the way. Mostly awake, but calm from the ativan. The flight take off was my worst point. They closed the door - I thought - here we go! No getting out now! Gripping the seat and staring straight ahead, didn't really let go of my breath till I heard the ding that we were above 10,000 feet.

Flights both down and back were uneventful. Very little turbulence. Snacks kept me busy, along with a Lewis Black DVD I brought along to watch on my laptop. Coming back, I wasn't as frightened, just eager to get back home. I have to admit, I boarded both my flight out of San Antonio, and then the flight out of Houston, with little fear. The take offs were even quite smoother than the ones going down! Amazing! And the long flight back once we changed planes in Houston, and then on to BWI, was practically motionless. And, I kind of have to admit, very relaxing. I watched some of my DVD, talked to the passenger next to me, and before I knew it, we were landing. Absolutely no turbulence on the flight back to BWI. I was lucky. Perhaps a lot of turbulence might not have left me so calm on the flight?

I think my worst fear of leaving behind my children and my husband was the worst anticipatory anxiety of its kind. So it's easy for me to say now that the flight is behind me that it was a-okay. If AA is my problem, who's to say that I won't experience it again should I have to schedule a flight in the future? But the actual flight itself, aside from that feeling of fear and uncertainty of the takeoff, was okay with me. :magic:

Thanks everyone!

Jackie

CAflyer
04-10-2009, 04:01 PM
Yeah I found when you talk to someone it goes very fast. On one of my flights I think I got this whole guys life story starting at take off and before I knew it we were landing :)

bellevueace
04-10-2009, 04:22 PM
The anticipation before the flight is worse than the actual flight itself, having overcome the AA and taken the flight you appear to have been calmer than you thought you would be. This is common and i bet your next flight will be easier still, you will become more comfortable with each flight from now on. So congratulate yourself on facing your fear and overcoming it, doing something your,e terrified of is a brave thing to do.

Lynda
04-18-2009, 06:57 PM
Congratulations, you did it! Remember this achievement next time you fly and try to make it soon.

amanda
04-19-2009, 12:10 AM
so glad it all went well...did you take an ativan on the way back too? and yes talking to someone really helps to distract you....I travel with my husband...he is the silent type...so that does not help...

Getb0rn
04-19-2009, 02:01 PM
Congrats! Glad to see the coming home flights were better for you well done! All by yourself too, so so awesome!! :):)

I always take my Nick. He has flown so much he gives me great confidence. I have to go without his this time very scary!!

Barb-SAN
04-19-2009, 02:22 PM
I always take my Nick. He has flown so much he gives me great confidence. I have to go without him this time very scary!!
Have you thought about taking along a "virtual Nick"? Ask him to record supportive statements to put on your ipod, or write you a series of notes to be read at various points during your trip (put them in sealed envelopes...no peaking ahead of time...;)). Bring along a little photo album with photos of the two of you doing fun things, etc. I assume you can at least talk to him on your cell phone before you board the plane, and again when you are in your seat before cell phones have to be turned off, and then again when you get to your destination. If anything "scary" happens during your flight...imagine what Nick would say to you, and be comforted by that. :)