Sad News

[jesgooch]

This is a little off topic, but you al over the years have been such a fantastic support group, I really need you now more than ever.

Tonight, my Dear Husband Scott, came home from work and collapsed froma massive heart attack on our kitchen floor.
The doctors did al they could for him.

I am devastated and heartbroken and angry adn upset adn lonely.

Always fly because you never know when the last trip you booked wont happen. We never go to goto Hawaii together orCalifornia or Europe because he is dead.


I might need a few of these::hug

jess

[Passenger Mark]

Jess,

We are here!

My thoughts, prayers, and anything else you need are with you.

BIG HUG!!! :grouphug

Mark

[Jeff California]

im so sorry Jess. As Mark said, ANYTHING you need. We are here for you. I am always up late at night on the computer if you ever need a friend to talk to.

Jeff:grouphug

[Disney fan]

Jessica.

Please know that we are here for you!!!


I still have you on IM, Buzz me anytime.

Hugs to you!!!:grouphug

Lynda

[Chelle]

Oh jess, I'm at a loss for words. I'm absolutely heartbroken for you :(

My sincere condolences, and if there's anything we can do, please don't hesitate.

I'm so sorry, sweetie :hug

[beaugest]

Jess, I'm so glad you felt that you could share this with us. You are completely right. We are here for you for any support you need not just FOF . I can't even start to imagine what you are feeling right now. Please just know that you have a support group that will be here for you. I'm happy to share my phone number and e-mail with you if you need to talk. Anytime. Monica

[Debbielevis2]

Jess -

If there were any words that could ease your pain, believe me - we'd use them. There really isn't anything I can say that'll be a magic "feel better" pill for you.

Just know, Jess, that, as Monica pointed out, we're all here to support you in whatever way we can.

Debbie

[spiffyone]

Jess, I'm so sorry...wasn't he very young? I remember your pictures. I'm shocked.

You can "inbox" me anytime if you want to chat. Please know that we are thinking of you.

spiff

[spleisher]

Jess,

There are no words that will ease your pain, so I will not even try. Just know that you will be in our thoughts and prayers, and that everyone here will do anything they can.

Sincerely,
Scott

[ChiefAtHeart]

:hug

I'm so sorry for your loss!

Jennifer

[canoga]

I'm so very sorry. Please lean on all of us as much as you need to.

Beth

[icesk8er31]

:hug :hug :hug

Jess,

I am SO sorry for your loss. Please let me know if there is anything I can do to help ease your way a little.

All the best,

Ice

[JamieAllison]

Jess, I'm so so sorry. I don't even know what to say, but I am thinking of you.

Jamie

:hug

[noflyingfan]

Oh, Jess. I'm so sorry. I can only echo what everyone else has said here. If you need to talk, you know where you can find us.

You have always been there to help us through our fear of flying, on this board and the other one, and I'm glad you felt comfortable enough to share here so that we can try to help you through this hard time.

We're all thinking of you!

:hug :hug :hug :hug :hug :hug :hug :hug :hug :hug

[firsttimeposting]

Jess,
I'm fairly new to the board but I hope that you'll feel comfortable to ask for any support you need from any of us. We'll all be thinking of you and your husband.
Connie

[invert29]

Jess,

I am so sorry for your loss.

:hug :hug :hug :hug

Chris

[MadScientist]

Jess,

The unexpected and sudden loss of a loved one is without a doubt one of the hardest things that we may have to go through in our lives. I've been there and I also realize that nothing anyone can say will make your grieving any less. But I also know that just hearing kind and loving words from others who care about you helps to sustain you during your grieving. I think everone on this board who has replied is willing to help you in any way they can. Don't be shy to ask.

Hopefully, you've been able to contact Bonnie by now. I know she'll be a real blessing to you.

Jess, you and your family and loved ones will be in my prayers tonight.

ken

[xiknal]

Jess, you are so right about flying, and doing anything in life that we have longed to do but keep putting off. Life is so fragile.

Thank you for trusting us with this great tragedy. We will help in any way we can.

Barb

[WillFlyToDisney2]

Huge hugs to you! :grouphug

We have you and your family in our prayers. I am so sorry. When you need us, we are all right here for you. :grouphug

Kelley

[aurora30]

you are in my prayers....

I'm so sorry for your loss, big hugs to you:hug :hug :hug

[StPeteMark]

Jess, your words ring so true. Wishing you the strength to cope with your loss in the days to come.

StPeteMark :grouphug

[Erinspring]

Jess,

Lynda IMed me about your post. I don't know what to say except I was so sad to hear about Scott. Sending you big hugs.... :hug Please feel free to IM or email anytime if you just want to talk. I'm always on!

-Erin

[jesgooch]

thank you everyone.

Things are pretty crazy rightnow and so surreal.
I have not actually talked to Bonnie but I did get an email from her.
I have lots of loving friends and family here helping me make some pretty tough decisions, trying not to use my flying ativan...

When I am ready I will look for you guys ok?

xo.

jess

ps. thanks for making it a sticky topic, I appreciate that, you guys are the best!

[mkahanek]

Jess, Just want to add my hugs and thoughts and prayers as well. :hug

[CaptainStark]

Sorry Jes,

Two years ago this week I got a call from a close SWA friend. His wife dropped dead in his kitchen of an aneurysm a little more than a week out from Christmas, leaving her husband and 7 and 12 year old sons. The company sent me out to be with him but family and friends are the ticket to making it through this kind of loss. Today he is back on his feet and the kids are doing great. Sometime life makes little sense.

My heart goes out to you.:(

Ray:ray

[graciecat14]

Jess,

Sending love and blessings your way. And blessings to Scott and thanks for all the wonderful times you shared together.

Becky

[YankssRule]

Oh Jess...I am so sorry to hear about this news. I don't know what to say that can help you. It will take time honey, and your friends are here for you.

:grouphug and :hug

Janet

[MarcoAviator]

There's nothing I can say that can make you feel better.

So sorry for your loss, Jess. :(

:hug :hug :hug

Marco

[screwi]

Im actually crying reading this.

May god be with you, Im so, so, sorry.

God bless.

Dave Screwi, England.